things I appreciate now that I didn't have 20 years ago, in no particular order.
1. A coffee maker that has a drip interruption. My old Melita, I would have to quickly slip another mug under to catch the drip if I wanted to sneak out a cup beforehand. Didn't matter how fast or dexterous I was it just didn't work without some of the brew spilling on the burner.
2.The internet....wow that goes without saying. I can't imagine life without it now. The best part is the people I have met online and being able to book my own vacations.
3.Not having to work for someone else. I am totally not a person that likes to take orders from someone of a lesser intelligence which it seems all of my previous bosses were. They couldn't even take a helpful suggestion with out getting their hackles up.
4.My kids, I can't imagine life without them. It would be so empty. Having been married for over 7 years with no luck, I was truly blessed to not just have one but three.
5.Patience and tolerance. In my younger years I wasn't so tolerant of other peoples ideas and faults. I know I was pretty judgemental. Now I accept people for how and what they are and look past the disagreeable things and concentrate on what I like about the person.
6.Satellite TV . I have always been the early to bed early to rise sort of person and missed out on alot of late night TV. In fact I never watched any of the SNL shows of the 80's, way past my bedtime. Now I can watch the eastern feeds 3 hour earlier, 3 and a half hours earlier in Newfoundland.
7.Travel travel travel. Being able to travel basically when I want and where I want. Not having to book time off. One time I had an incredible travel deal 2 weeks airfare and hotel $299 to Mazatlan back in 1988. Vacations were pretty expensive back then. I had to literally beg my boss to give me the unpaid time off. There was plenty of staff to cover me but he acted like such a jerk. We were able to go but it still pisses me off how I had to beg him for it.
8.A super comfortable bed. We have the most comfy king size bed. It is a high density foam core mattress and I would never go back to springs again.
9.Rechargeable batteries. The money I would spend on new batteries for my camera,and Sony walkman. Now I have all rechargables in everything that requires a battery. Not having all that crap going into the landfills is an added bonus.
10.Not sure how to word this one but not being embarrassed about things I haven't done. I used to be embarrassed if someone I was with did something. Now I don't care what people think. I only worry about my own behaviour.
11.My ability to change and adapt. If you don't have bailey's for my coffee I will drink it black. If you only have budweiser in the fridge I will drink it even though it gives me rotgut. I am much more pleasable now.
12.Forgiveness, I can forgive people for just about anything. I am not the one that you will have to hold yourself accountable to.
13.Twenty extra pounds. Not really on that one just seeing if you were reading to the end. But I am 20 lbs heavier then I was 20 years ago. Actually closer to 30 pounds heavier but its been fun putting them on :)
So what has changed for the better in your life?
